I kind of hate my mom....?

My mom can be like that sometimes. Actually, she is like that a lot of the time. Usually it is because she is stressed from work or something has come up in the family. But just try to avoid anything that might cause a fight with her (which, in your case, might be everything). If she has anger issues, you know that she does and you can try to work around it. but soon she will realize that her behavior is causing you to back off and become resentful, and she might try to control her problems and anger.