Waxing/Shaving?

Over the last few years I ave shaven th odd area of my body as I was embarred I had hair in those areas. After shaving it obviously gets a bit stubbly then the problem gets worse, I have since found a new cream spunge thing which you rub on the skin and it comes off in the shower. This seems like abetter option but most areas still feel stubbly. mainly because I have shaved these areas in teh past. Is there anything I can do to help make my skin in these areas feel not so stubbly? Will the hair thin out in time if I use this new cream stuff?